Wednesday, 5 March 2014

Relationships on Earth

As this was my first post... Lets start with the relationships on earth....

We know that their are so many relationships on earth. But, most of the people don't know the values of them.. We think that, this relation is best and another don't have much importance. But we should know one thing that, every relation has it's own importance which we don't even think of.

Lets point out some relationships..
1. Family
2. Teacher
3. Soul (Self)
4. Friends
5. Love

FAMILY: 
                      This is the basic and first relationship on Earth. It starts right from we enter into the womb. Our family takes care of us right from we are in womb. If not, we wouldn't have born. If you were born and living the present life happily means, it's all due to this relation. Family takes care of us in every second of our life. If you are able to live on your foot with your own earnings means its all happened due to family.

1. If you are sick, they take care of you and pray to god.
2. If you were weak, they supported as a back bone.
3. If you were weak in studies, they encouraged you.
4. If you loose in anything, they gave us positive energy to win next time.
5. If you are in depression, they cheered you up.

For orphan, society will be the family to make them learn good habits....

TEACHER - STUDENT:
                       This is next to Family, since it comes into action when we join in school. Teachers takes care of us at school, where parents won't present to take care of us. We all know that, in some places teachers were also called as parents. They turn our normal mind into a brilliant minds. Encourage us, in the same way our parents do. They almost cover all things our parents do. But the only thing where both differs is, parents give us money to live. Teachers give us education to live. Any human can be turned to an educated person with the help of teacher. They will encourage you in all aspects and situations.

SOUL:
                      This is in next place. By using above two relationships, we need to educate our self. Family and Teachers educate us to some limit and that gives us the power to educate our self to next levels. Soul is nothing but the mind. If we were educated persons, we get good thinking power in our mind and it start creating new positive and useful ideas to do anything. Family makes us to learn what is good and what is bad (Culture). Teacher gives the education. This combination makes us to take right decisions in right time. Which we generally called as Soul. If any thing misses in family and teacher, then our soul losses logical thinking to take perfect decision....
                      Both educated and uneducated persons have the power of thinking. But, if there is a lack of  family or teacher then its useless. Even if you are educated you cannot take correct decision, as the same as uneducated person. If there is balance between them. We start thinking by our self that, what to do and what not to do. This is called self enlightening. Even if you are alone and stuck up in any problem, our mind gives the exact idea that make us to over come the problem.......
                      Some times we do what our mind says to do. If that is in balanced condition, then you can do any thing in perfect way. Soul can be in balanced position, only by first and second relationships. First we should respect our self and give some importance to it.
                       Some people will say that, listen to your soul but not to others... Since, our soul can take exact decisions once we think them twice before doing the job.

Example: If you were kidnapped by some one and your phone is with you and other things to fight. In this condition we are alone and we should take an exact decision as quick as possible..
We have two choices,
1. Use mobile
     a. SMS
     b. Calling
2. Fight using what is available

If your mind is in balanced situation. We take exact decision. If you choose mobile. Then there are two more choices, either SMS or Calling. If you think twice, mind will say to SMS to many people. If not you will blindly make a call and you will loose your mobile for ever.....

If you choose to fight, We should think it twice.. We should count the number of people. We should think of our stamina, is it possible to fight with them.

Taking a wrong decision in wrong time makes you to throw your self in critical situations.

If you were alone in any situation (Personnel problem or anything), your soul will play the critical role in decision making. Gives the power to take positive decisions even in depression. It gives you the perfect solution to problem... That's why all say "LISTEN TO YOUR SOUL BEFORE MISTAKE HAPPENS". People advices to do meditation. Since, it makes mind pleasant and enlighten the brain to coordinate what we learned from family and teachers.

FRIENDS:
                          Making of friends starts from our childhood. You can share many things with friends, which cannot be shared with family. Friend will be the most trusted person like the family. Soul is activated by Family and Teacher... Now, that sole makes you to choose the right friends for you. Some people say that, If a person is bad, he will make friendship with bad people. If good, he makes with good.  So, if our soul is in good vibration, it will say us to join good people.If not, it will go for bad one.
                           Every person have, at least one friend in his/her life. Some people, treat their soul to be the best friend. A friend should be the one, who thinks for good of other one. Friend shouldn't be selfish (Selfish is most dangerous fish than the piranha fish, it can kill other person mentally).
1. Friend should not be selfish.
2. Friend should be a motivator
3. Friend should give good thoughts even in bad times
4. Friend should not do bad, if he cannot do good to them.
5. Friend is the next most trusted person after family. So, he should give positive energy.

LOVE:
                            This is the most important in life. Since, choosing a wrong person makes your rest of your life a problem. Apart from above types, it plays another important role. If you choose the right one, your graph of happiness will go up.. if not it falls. Some people confuses to know the difference between love, attraction and lust. I, previously said to use your soul in decision making. Since, your soul can be the only one which can choose the right one for you as how it selected right friends for you. Even if you neglect in making friend, you should concentrate while making partner. Partner is like a rose flower. Since, if we select wrong one it hurts as prickles on rose plant stem. If not, it will be soft and beautiful like rose flower.

We will discuss about love in future posts...

CONCLUSION:
                           It is clear that, every relationship has it's own importance. We cannot tell that, this is best. If you are able to select only one relation as the best. Then you lost something in your life journey. Which should be patch worked by rewinding the memory disc.

Example: What is the most important to build a house.
1. planning
2. basement
3. bricks
4. cement
5. windows
6. doors and so on........

We cannot tell only this is important.... They all play there special role in building beautiful house..

In similar way,

Family = Teacher = Soul = Friend = Love = LIFE

  • If you have family you will get character
  • If you have teacher you will have good knowledge
  • If you love your self (Soul... ie.,mind), you will get good balancing power to make decisions. If you love your soul you can love others.
  • If you have good friends, you can share and have a wiping hand and supporting shoulder.
  • If you get perfect partner, you can be happy for rest of life....

Character (20% of life) + Knowledge(20% of life) + Self respect(20% of life) + Friend(20% of life) + Partner(20% of life) = 100% LIFE

If any thing misses, the life will be imperfect.


SORRY IF THERE ARE ANY MISTAKES IN IT. APOLOGIZE ME......

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