Which will win. Beauty? or Character?

The main reason behind posting this is, people are unable to differentiate Beauty and Character.

From their childhood, people are showing interest on the persons external beauty but not the internal beauty. So many people tried to explain this indirectly by thinking that, we are intelligent.

Some of the quotes and poems regarding this,
1. Don't judge by it's cover
2. Don't value the person, by what they wear outside.
3. Consider first two lines,

Medi pandu chooda melimaiyundu...................మేడి పండు చూడ మేలిమైయుండు

Potta vippi chooda purugulundu......................పొట్ట విప్పి చూడ పురుగులుండు

Pirikivani madini binkamilagura..........................పిరికి వాని మదిని బింకమీలాగురా

Viswadhaabhirama vinura Vema..................... విశ్వధాభిరామ, వినుర వేమ

translation:

Medi, a fruit, looks gorgeous externally,

But when we rip it, we find worms within.

In a similar manner, a coward appears brave outside, but in reality he is not.

Beloved of the Bounteous, Vema, listen!

copyright: Vemana..... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vemana


There are so many quotes similar to the above......

People won't consider you as educated person after reading them, you will be a educated person only after following.... Become educated.


Think of it once,

Okay you will marry a girl/boy with beautiful external appearance.. Will you write a agreement that, your partner will be beautiful till his death...
No, you cannot be that sure. He/she may damage their beauty in any accident.


If you marry a person with internal beauty(that is character), then you will be happy throughout your life. These people won't look or search for beauty. Since, they have it in there blood.

One example.....

You have gone to a beach..... You enjoyed a lot their for 30minutes... After some time a person comes to you and say that, another beautiful beach is there after going about 5KM distance.

Once think.....

You are at beach, Means you went to enjoy the sea...... Sea is always a sea. Even if you go to any place on earth. You will see the same but with some minor differences....

Every sea will have the,
Same salt quantity.
Same water.
Same chemicals dissolved.
Same dirt.

You can't even drink the sea water..... Even if you gone to the worlds most beautiful beach, you cannot taste them. But the only difference is, types of creatures (living beings) living in them.....

Similar to that,

every person will have the same body parts..... No one will have any extra parts......

The only differences are,
Colour will be different.
height will be different.
size will be different.


But, every person have their unique character..... Every person will not be same in character, as the sea differs in creatures living in them.... You cannot find out all the creatures living in them, until a tourist guide explain you..




Choose the right half, with character but not the beauty....... If you get the external beauty with internal beauty then you will be the lucky..... If not, be happy with what you got.......

Who have the right to choose love marriage......

In this post, i will explain "Who have the right to choose love marriage????" What they should know first... 


Now a days people were showing too much interest in love marriages. But, maximum people were failing to take it to marriage. People are simply falling in love without any planning or estimating problem that may arise. Some people are too worst, they don't even know the difference between attraction, love and lust.

Please i request you people fall in love only after knowing the actual difference between the above three kinds.

ATTRACTION:
                    They simply look at the person and they start dreaming about them. If you think it as love, this is wrong. Some people even say it as love at first sight... Yes, love start with attraction, but it shouldn't see beauty at that first sight. In this stage people will switches to another person too. Since, if you were really in love you won't think of others persons.

LOVE:
                     In this, person will only see the character of the person instead of beauty, wealth or any other extra things. If a person really love, then they won't think of the other persons. They think of the future life instead of planing for the present. Some people act as they love truly and madly. If he really love you then, he won't even hesitate to explain his/her past. Since, they don't like to cheat by hiding the past. If a person, says about their past life and their future planing then you can just confirm as they love you. But, they cannot confirm 100%. If they love, they will make your relation public, that means they like to meet your friends or your family. If they don't do any of the above, then just take it lite. Don't think of it very seriously. Since, if you fix that person as life partner, you need to suffer a lot by those memories.

You should also think about some important things.

1. Can you both convince the parents for marriage.. Since, it hurts you in future to do brake up.
2. Can we adjust after marriage... Since people get fights only after marriage. If you can avoid thinking of divorce then go for marriage. If you go for divorce then your lifes will be smashed.
3. Can you both control ego's of each other.
4. Can you trust each other.... If you don't have trust. Then you will continuously fight for simple things.
5. Can you both have ability to compromise.
6. If any one gets injured, then can other help, give love and live till death (instead of killing them mentally).
7. Can you love each other even after any one have fertility problem.. People think of second marrige at this stage.
8. Both should know some values of marriage. In some traditions people do some vows. Do you know all the meanings.
9. Can you both understand the reason behind other persons silence.
10. Can you both share each others problems and encourage each other in future.
11. Can you forgive other for some mistakes made by them (Not about family affires --- Since you won't do those mistakes after knowing the meaning of vows).


Love will not lost in your life till your death.... If you love each other, understanding each other mentality. If one gets anger, one should compromise.... Love is all about compromising for each other. One should accept their defeat for other. And similarly both should follow this rule....


LUST:

                         There is nothing to say about lust..... It's just a sexual attraction between opposite sexes. They connected to each other by looking at others physical appearance, Structure and beauty. If these people marry, they will brake up after having sexual contact or till another beauty appears... Some people get trapped in this traps and make their own life as disaster. They just look them sexually nothing more than that.... I think, you all can understand the lust.....

Love and marry for living, not for braking hearts.... Adjust after you got married. Even you trapped in traps, its your mistake. If you have any sense then, you won't get trapped your self in those traps. It's because of your mistake..... But, don't take wrong decisions like suicide... You won't get any thing neither the other.... You loose the life, which don't have any back up or restore. It suffers your family......

Think with maturity...... Instead of blindly trusting the other, have some doubt on them..... Having doubts is better than getting trapped in traps..... If you doubt others, you may loose that person, but if you get trapped you loose your whole life.............. If they love you truly, they wait for you or at least comes back for you... They ask for apologize for their wrong step of leaving you in past...... Every one does the mistake... giving a chance is better than leaving them..... Even if you give chance, don't get trapped.

People come into your life by trusting you... If you have the guts to maintain that trust, then marry them.. If not don't even disturb them.....  If you are reason for any ones sadness, then you won't succeed in your lifetime.... Even after you achieved any thing, you didn't stand up for your promise... So, You failed their.... If you get failed in life, then will be failed for ever. even after many successes in life.......

Getting married is not the issue... Holding forever is important..... We are human, not any creature....

The Love

Their are so many people who express love towards you in the form of care or in other forms.

1. Family
2. Friend & well wishers
3. Life partner

When we consider Human, above three types are main. We also know that, people even love other living and non living things like Pets, Planets, Nature and so on....

The main reason to consider Family, Friends & Partners in this post is, now a days people were going into depression only due to lack of getting expected love from those three people. Lets discuss some of the ways to overcome from depression, due to lack of love.



Family:
                          Family is the first one to show or express love towards you, than any one else. Since, this love starts right from the day you entered into womb. When they start loving you, they won't even seen you. But, they loves you and prays for your health.  They takes care of you and your health right from that day. They love you till their last breath. Remaining two types of love, don't even balance love expressed by family. They just try to balance or fulfill the lost one. Since, they were born only after experiencing this family love. This is the base to all the remaining types of love. The love expressed by family is non selfish and true love.
                          Now a days, people were unable to understand the value of family and they were leaving the family so easily, for the love shown by other people. If a person didn't learned the meaning of love from family then other two won't be their on earth.. Only a family can understand you more than any other person on earth.
                          Orphans learn the value of love and relations from the society. If they won't get love from society, they will get bad impression about the people and they turn into negative type and do wrong things.

Cases you may think,  they won't  care for you,
1. When they love younger or elder person than you.
2. When they won't buy the things, what you like.
3. When they scold you for simple mistakes.
4. When they won't accept you love marriage proposal.
and So on.....


Once think in a positive way,
1. If they love your elder or younger, that doesn't mean they love them more than you. Actually, a family loves every person equally. Just search for some reason, they may be in sad. So, they are taking extra care in them.
2. When they won't by a thing that you like....  They would have thought that, it's not a right choice for you. If they buy what ever you want, then you won't know the value of money.
3. If they scold you for simple mistake, that means... At this age, if they leave you for this simple mistake, you may do a bigger mistake in future. Once if you get fear of doing mistakes, then you will not try to do any mistake in future again.
4. If they are not accepting your love marriage proposal...... That doesn't mean they won't value your choices. But, they are having some fear that, did you select the right one and will that person take care of you in life time.


In similar way, there may be so many reasons for different situations. You will come to know, when you stand in the place of your parents.


Friends & Well wishers:
                       
                            We start making friends after certain ages. When we are in primary school, their is no need to take care of making friends. But, now a days some kids were also matured at small ages. They know how to cheat, since they were grown up in negative environment. We also see some people that, they will be as friends from their childhood and still continues. After we enter into high school level, we should take care while making friends, we should estimate the character of that person before doing friendship. Some people will do friendship for using you for their needs. If we make good friends, we learn good things. We cannot learn every thing from family and teacher. But, a friend will help you in learning many things.

1. Friends will make you learn new things.
2. They supports you in every moment of your life.
3. They will give some awareness regarding society.
4. They supports you and help you in making some decisions.
5. Some friends know important things learned from their family, and they will share that information with you... Which gives some extra knowledge. Since, our parents wouldn't know regarding that.
6. They will support you, when you are away from family.
7. They will easily understand you, since they are of your age.

But, your life will be happy only if you make good friends..... A bad friend can make you learn bad habits. It's not the matter of having many friends. But in that many, how many of them care for you is important. If a friend cannot help you in doing good things, then he should not help you in doing bad things or harm you.

We should be careful in making friends. Having only one good friend is many time better than 100 bad friends.


Life partner:
                        
                          Even if you don't concentrate on making good friends, it won't damage that much. But, if you select a wrong half for you, then your remaining life will not be that happy. Both should live their rest of life combined. In life, their won't any eraser to erase. So, we should be careful in this part. Since, we generally get married at approximate age ranges from 25 -30 and our life span at present environmental conditions is 60-70(if lucky 70+). So, it's very much clear that, we live with our life partner for a period of approximately 40+ years.
                       
                           So, Selecting a life partner is more important. Before selecting our partner, we should have some qualities in us. Every person will have a dream of getting a good life partner with some special qualities. Generally a person searches for a life partner, who gives the life what he missed from his childhood.

A person may search for a partner having,
either, Loving heart
either, Understanding mind
either, supportive mind set
either, who can share feelings with
either, who have all the above and so on.

Now a days, many people are showing interest in love marriage. In olden days, they used to marry a person selected by their family (arranged marriage). There is no much difference between love marriage and arranged marriage.

# In Love marriage, people fall in love and understand each other and then they gets married.
# In arranged marriage, People get married first and then they start understanding and start loving each other.

If their is lack of trust and understanding between each other, they cannot live the rest of life. Their are so many cases that led them to divorce, even it's a love marriage.. We all know that, they married after loving each other and trusting each other. But, the main thing they missed is EGO. They should control there ego first.

Now a days, love is like a use and throw. They are using love not at least as the tissue paper, for their personnel needs. That's why before loving any person, we should be with preplanned mindset to resist for any result or situation is future.... Since, some people are too sensitive. They choose suicide as a solution for the failure. Either for love failure or for his personnel problems... It's all due to lack of positive thinking.

"Minimum" their will be 5 death cases per day, due to love failure. Failing in love is so simple and common. It's not due to ones mistake, it's due to both of them. In some cases, love may fail due to mistake of person.

If a person missed an accident then, he will say "Thank you God for saving my life".. But, why can't a person take the love failure in that way. "Thank god, god may thought that person is not perfect for me. So, god sent that person away from my life..." Even if you did wrong things with that, just leave it and wait. God may send a perfect one who can understand you past and supports you in future..... 

There are many cases that, even after being in love for many years they brake up for some reasons. They won't come back, even after forgiving for their mistake. In that case it's not your fault, it's their fault. Since, you still love them. We should remove them from our mind, since they don't know the value of "LOVED BY PERSON". Getting a person you loved, is not so lucky. But, loved by other person is lucky.

Some people come into our life for their profit. Some people hate your growth and comes into your life to make us down in our career. We don't even get any doubt on them, they will act so nicely than a film actors. They use perfect dialogues at perfect timing. They maintain some secret affairs too, some people maintain affairs and say as, they are my relatives and why can't you trust me darling.

Reasons behind falling in love,
1. Some people think attraction as love.
2. Some people come to down our career.
3. Some people come for their needs (Money and all).
4. Some people think lust as love... They generally as for kiss and body touch.
5. Some people will come to you by seeing your wealth.
6. Some people act, since they may be blackmailed to act like that.
7. Some people don't expect any thing, but they simply love you and cares about you. These people are true lovers...

Character that a person to have, before falling in love....
1. A person should fall in love, only after preparing for every thing.
2. A person should have the ability to resist, if other cheat you.
3. A person should have positive thinking or mind set.
4. A person shouldn't have caste feeling or any other unnecessary feelings.
5. A person should be able to guess the character at first sight.

What should and shouldn't be their in love.....

Should have,
1. Remove "You and Me" Make that as "WE".
2. Trust
3. Respect on other persons feelings
4. Understanding and supportive mind, that is.. able to understand their recent act and support for growth of their future.
5. Forgiveness
6. Apologizing mentality.
7. Satisfaction for simple things (Adjusting mind).
and so on...... These are basic needs.... In one sentence a positive mind or feelings......

Shouldn't have,
1. Ego.
2. Caste and religious feelings.
3. Rich or poor
4. Shouldn't see external appearance.
5. Shouldn't expect more.
6. Thought of break up in mind in future.
and so on...........


We should not keep much hope on the person, who loved you first and

If you are unable to guess their character take it easy. If you spot any difference in their act between past and present, then don't expect more and don't take it seriously until your marriage.

Don't even bother about the one, who missed you. They are really unlucky persons... Trust on you, you may advanced by breaking barriers with that person, due to trusting that person. Don't go down. Just be strong, their would be a person waiting for you... Who will accept your past... and who knows, that person may love you more than you loved your "ex". Just wait for the right time...... That would take some time for any person to become lucky........

If you ex person is enjoying his/her life happily, then why can't you start enjoying....... You may crossed your limits and became much closer. Even after that things happened, just think of it once. Why can't "I" enjoy my life.. If that person don't have any worry. Why should "I" spoil my life...???? Is their any need to feel dude.

You may turn into a billionaire in future... Luck will take some time to knock your door... God knows every thing. God will send the right things at right time into our life.... 

You may planned to suicide.. But, once think of it... Their might be one coming toward you running, to say I LOVE YOU. They reached you just after you left you life. 

SO WAIT and LIVE FOR THE ONE WHO LOVES YOU.... NOT FOR THE ONE WHO LEFT YOU... Be POSITIVE... Live POSITIVE.... In some billion people, you just missed one person.. Hope and search in remaining people.

Once we start working hard, we can easily correct a negative value into a positive value.... For example, scientists takes so many years to discover new things. "Big bang"...
A work get 100% result only after doing so much of hard work.... 
If you want to enjoy the beauty of rose, you need to enjoy the injuries made by thorns...


Their are so many real life example in front of us. But, still we can't understand and we still search in books written by others, for good messages and quotes.... 

My dear friends, our life is a best example to us..... We should learn from our past to build your future with beauty. 

Reading those books is waste of time. If you cannot take your own life as message, then how can you understand and take others life as inspiration. 

Your past life should be your inspiration, for you present and future.. Every mistake we do at present will make you perfect in your future.



Now a days, people write their own quotes... But our mind set is in such a way that, we follow them only if they write any legends name below that....... 
We can't ask them, sir/madam did you wrote this quote.... Since, they were died long ago..... Even for some simple quotes we use God...... If you kill that, god will harm you... What the hell is that.... Just understand once, if you once get to know what is good and what is bad.... Then is their any need for books or any person for inspiration.....

The Soul

In the previous post i said that, Soul is nothing but mind and it is linked with Family and Teacher.

                         Yes, the reason behind that is, Brain is the only part that will do all things. Each and every thing done by us is directed by our brain. If we have a good family and at least one inspirative teacher, then we will get perfect thoughts in mind.
                         In previous post i also said that, For orphans society will be the guide and like family. Since, if the society is good towards him or even if he see the people doing good things. Then he automatically leads the life in positive manner and in a good way. Even if he don't have education, he can do good things instead of bad things. He at least know what is good and what is bad to society and for him.

Role of family in Soul:
                          Family plays the primary role in this. Since, the person spends more time with family than in any other place. If he had a good family and with good people in family, then he will be maximum surrounded by good people and chances of injecting good characters in mind is high. Some children take only one person as inspiration, either father, mother, brother & sister etc., in that case, he only follows that one person. He takes that person as guide to him.

Example:
                        I have an real time example that i have come across, In my neighbors family, he was the only son to them. His father was a drinker and mother was also not good. He was good at small age, but when he got some maturity and thinking power, he turned into a drinker and smoker learned from father and he became rash and odd that was from his mother. It's clear that, family plays the major role in a human life.

                         From above example, i think every one understood the role of the family. Even if he had a good teacher to teach, he missed that first 20% of life from family....

Role of Teacher: 
                         After family, teacher plays the next important role. Let us consider that the person had learned good things, but he need to learn some more things along with good habits. He need to have an idea on society, where he is going to live his future life. He need to start estimating the persons character by just looking at him/her for the first sight and first talk. Even if he wrongly estimate in first talk, he will be careful with him until he come to know completely about that person. Teacher also gives some qualities to the students that didn't got from family. But, he can only learn from his teacher only if he respect his teacher. That giving respect to them comes from family. If he didn't got a good teacher in his life time, then he misses next 20% of his life. First 20% from family will have value only if gets this 20% from teacher.

Example:
                        A person didn't gone to school but he has a good family, where he only learned good character. If he didn't gone to school, he won't have exact/ minimum idea regarding society. Lets consider village people. They will be good in character than others in cities. But, village people can easily targeted by cunning people. They can be easily cheated. If they are educated, then he will know that they are cheating him. He can also forecast the threat to him by the person.

Role of our self:
                        We also play an important role in taking decisions. A person with good character and good knowledge can also be cheated so easily. Now a days, talent of cheaters is upgraded as the technology updated. Family and teacher played there role of fulfilling 20% + 20% = 40%.... But, the next 20% is in our hands. First we should estimate what kind of people were living around us. How to deal with each person according to there character. That is, we should maintain limited contact with bad ones.
                         Firstly, we should respect our self. either it may be internal or external. We know that, If a person loves himself then only he can love others. We need to start understanding our self first.
What we are?
Why we came for?
Why we are living?
Why we should help others? etc.,
This kind of questions should be asked to our self. There is no need to do any meditation or either no need to read and learn from books written by some legends. We should write our own book. Buddha and Vivekananda and all others didn't learned from others i think, they realized by there own. That is called Self Empowerment.
If we are able to answer these questions, then we are going in good way and we can do good. Once, we know the real meaning of our life then you cannot be stopped by any external force.....


If we can get this average percentage. That is, 20% + 20% + 20% = 60%... Then, the remaining 40% will be automatically comes into our life..... Even if we were cheated by some one, we should always be positive..... All kind of depression and sadness and other kind of negatives will leave our mind after getting this 60% of marks.. A student gets qualified in studies with this 60% of marks. In the same way, a human gets qualified in his life with this 60%...... No one throws you into negative energy.. This positive and negative boundaries were created by us. So, we can control this positive and negatives as our wish..... Since, they are our own creations. So, don't be depressed by negatives. For every act of us, there will be a reason....

Some people say, God made me to do that work.  This word is also created by us, in order to be positive for some kind of mistakes that are done by us..... In India, common word used by Hindus is, శివుని ఆజ్ఞ లేకుండా చీమ అయినా కుట్టదు. Even an Ant won't bite us without the permission of the lord shiva...
If we have time to write, we can write so many line similar to the above. God is created for turning our negatives into positives.......

• So, always be positive... 
• Do what your mind tells. That to, only after thinking twice or thrice. Estimate all the results in the mind while thinking. like, what will happen if that was executed?

      We know that, a word cannot be taken back once it was spoken.

A wrong decision cannot be corrected after it was executed. 

• Respect our self first, then we automatically respect others too.. 

Do your best to achieve this 60% of life. Then next 40% will also be good and comes by flying.

Relationships on Earth

As this was my first post... Lets start with the relationships on earth....

We know that their are so many relationships on earth. But, most of the people don't know the values of them.. We think that, this relation is best and another don't have much importance. But we should know one thing that, every relation has it's own importance which we don't even think of.

Lets point out some relationships..
1. Family
2. Teacher
3. Soul (Self)
4. Friends
5. Love

FAMILY: 
                      This is the basic and first relationship on Earth. It starts right from we enter into the womb. Our family takes care of us right from we are in womb. If not, we wouldn't have born. If you were born and living the present life happily means, it's all due to this relation. Family takes care of us in every second of our life. If you are able to live on your foot with your own earnings means its all happened due to family.

1. If you are sick, they take care of you and pray to god.
2. If you were weak, they supported as a back bone.
3. If you were weak in studies, they encouraged you.
4. If you loose in anything, they gave us positive energy to win next time.
5. If you are in depression, they cheered you up.

For orphan, society will be the family to make them learn good habits....

TEACHER - STUDENT:
                       This is next to Family, since it comes into action when we join in school. Teachers takes care of us at school, where parents won't present to take care of us. We all know that, in some places teachers were also called as parents. They turn our normal mind into a brilliant minds. Encourage us, in the same way our parents do. They almost cover all things our parents do. But the only thing where both differs is, parents give us money to live. Teachers give us education to live. Any human can be turned to an educated person with the help of teacher. They will encourage you in all aspects and situations.

SOUL:
                      This is in next place. By using above two relationships, we need to educate our self. Family and Teachers educate us to some limit and that gives us the power to educate our self to next levels. Soul is nothing but the mind. If we were educated persons, we get good thinking power in our mind and it start creating new positive and useful ideas to do anything. Family makes us to learn what is good and what is bad (Culture). Teacher gives the education. This combination makes us to take right decisions in right time. Which we generally called as Soul. If any thing misses in family and teacher, then our soul losses logical thinking to take perfect decision....
                      Both educated and uneducated persons have the power of thinking. But, if there is a lack of  family or teacher then its useless. Even if you are educated you cannot take correct decision, as the same as uneducated person. If there is balance between them. We start thinking by our self that, what to do and what not to do. This is called self enlightening. Even if you are alone and stuck up in any problem, our mind gives the exact idea that make us to over come the problem.......
                      Some times we do what our mind says to do. If that is in balanced condition, then you can do any thing in perfect way. Soul can be in balanced position, only by first and second relationships. First we should respect our self and give some importance to it.
                       Some people will say that, listen to your soul but not to others... Since, our soul can take exact decisions once we think them twice before doing the job.

Example: If you were kidnapped by some one and your phone is with you and other things to fight. In this condition we are alone and we should take an exact decision as quick as possible..
We have two choices,
1. Use mobile
     a. SMS
     b. Calling
2. Fight using what is available

If your mind is in balanced situation. We take exact decision. If you choose mobile. Then there are two more choices, either SMS or Calling. If you think twice, mind will say to SMS to many people. If not you will blindly make a call and you will loose your mobile for ever.....

If you choose to fight, We should think it twice.. We should count the number of people. We should think of our stamina, is it possible to fight with them.

Taking a wrong decision in wrong time makes you to throw your self in critical situations.

If you were alone in any situation (Personnel problem or anything), your soul will play the critical role in decision making. Gives the power to take positive decisions even in depression. It gives you the perfect solution to problem... That's why all say "LISTEN TO YOUR SOUL BEFORE MISTAKE HAPPENS". People advices to do meditation. Since, it makes mind pleasant and enlighten the brain to coordinate what we learned from family and teachers.

FRIENDS:
                          Making of friends starts from our childhood. You can share many things with friends, which cannot be shared with family. Friend will be the most trusted person like the family. Soul is activated by Family and Teacher... Now, that sole makes you to choose the right friends for you. Some people say that, If a person is bad, he will make friendship with bad people. If good, he makes with good.  So, if our soul is in good vibration, it will say us to join good people.If not, it will go for bad one.
                           Every person have, at least one friend in his/her life. Some people, treat their soul to be the best friend. A friend should be the one, who thinks for good of other one. Friend shouldn't be selfish (Selfish is most dangerous fish than the piranha fish, it can kill other person mentally).
1. Friend should not be selfish.
2. Friend should be a motivator
3. Friend should give good thoughts even in bad times
4. Friend should not do bad, if he cannot do good to them.
5. Friend is the next most trusted person after family. So, he should give positive energy.

LOVE:
                            This is the most important in life. Since, choosing a wrong person makes your rest of your life a problem. Apart from above types, it plays another important role. If you choose the right one, your graph of happiness will go up.. if not it falls. Some people confuses to know the difference between love, attraction and lust. I, previously said to use your soul in decision making. Since, your soul can be the only one which can choose the right one for you as how it selected right friends for you. Even if you neglect in making friend, you should concentrate while making partner. Partner is like a rose flower. Since, if we select wrong one it hurts as prickles on rose plant stem. If not, it will be soft and beautiful like rose flower.

We will discuss about love in future posts...

CONCLUSION:
                           It is clear that, every relationship has it's own importance. We cannot tell that, this is best. If you are able to select only one relation as the best. Then you lost something in your life journey. Which should be patch worked by rewinding the memory disc.

Example: What is the most important to build a house.
1. planning
2. basement
3. bricks
4. cement
5. windows
6. doors and so on........

We cannot tell only this is important.... They all play there special role in building beautiful house..

In similar way,

Family = Teacher = Soul = Friend = Love = LIFE

• If you have family you will get character
• If you have teacher you will have good knowledge
• If you love your self (Soul... ie.,mind), you will get good balancing power to make decisions. If you love your soul you can love others.
• If you have good friends, you can share and have a wiping hand and supporting shoulder.
• If you get perfect partner, you can be happy for rest of life....

Character (20% of life) + Knowledge(20% of life) + Self respect(20% of life) + Friend(20% of life) + Partner(20% of life) = 100% LIFE

If any thing misses, the life will be imperfect.


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